Sunday, July 27, 2014

Time flies when you're having fun!‏

Hi Everybody,

Is Sunday the end of one week or the beginning of another?  Just wondering.  Some days it's either or.  This is the first quiet Sunday we've had in forever and it's nice...it was time for a rest.  We were only in Church related meetings from 8:30 until 2:30 today.  Not tooting the we're-so-righteous horn but just justifying being lazy tonight!  It's time to start gearing up for the back to school rush here at Cornell in about 3 weeks.  That means the kids there will be back to school too.  Is that good or bad?  Guess it depends on who you ask!  We're getting ready bit by bit.  Our big project now will be to get the office ready to be a "safe haven" for the kids when they get back to the rigors of academia.  We're going to turn it into a place that they can come on their noon hour to eat lunch or take a nap or read their scriptures or just whatever over-achieving over-stressed college kids do.  We won't be there all of the time but who needs us when there's a couch and a pillow and blanket and fridge and microwave.  Debating on whether or not to stock the fridge with soda....what do you guys think?!!  Just to let you know our grocery bill has gone down significantly since being here and we'd pay it in a heartbeat if you all were here to eat with us!

Shall we start at the end and work backwards?  So yesterday we drove missionaries to our Branch Summer Social at a lake house on Seneca Lake (next one over from our Cauyga Lake).  All of us missionaries felt sorry for ourselves as we watched everybody swim and tube and boat ride and jump from the top of the boat house into the lake.  But we were the designated photographers and for us old guys it was just nice to sit on a lakeside deck chair or up on the house deck and watch all the fun.  And all I had to do was make a pan of brownies!  Made us a little nostalgic for Williams Lake.  Did we say once before that this is the first summer in 40-plus years that we haven't been been to Idaho for at least a few days in the summer. 

We missed being in Utah for Pioneer Day celebrations....but here's a completely awesome tender mercy.  We discovered we could get the Days of 47 Parade on the internet on KSL Live so we had some work to do at home and thought we'd watch the parade since the American Fork Marching Band was going to be marching.  So we're watching the parade and the announcers say here comes the AF band and they give a little blurb about how good they are and they start to play and the camera is "panning' over the whole band and all of a sudden it focuses in on Connor's face....his whole face....on the whole screen....for 10-15 seconds!!!  We didn't know whether or not to cry or cheer.....so we did a little of both!!  How did KSL's camera-man know that a grandpa and grandma in upstate New York needed to see that face??!!

Our Institutes this week were focused on Education and we loved teaching them.  Our students be they 80 or 20 have such good insights on lifelong learning and balancing spiritual and secular learning.  Our challenge here at Cornell is with the undergraduate students understanding the necessity of not neglecting the spiritual education.  There is an atmosphere here of Sunday being just another day for tests and study groups and assignments due and appointments made in connection with school and it's hard for especially the younger ones to understand how easy it is to fall away from activity and even testimony when the spiritual side of learning falls by the wayside.  But we have such a great core group of graduate students who care about their "younger brothers and sisters."  They have such capacity to find and fellowship those who need the lifeline of Gospel principles.  We're still searching for the lost ones.  How important it is to teach the kids from the time that they're little that as Pres. Eyring says "There should never be a conscious choice to let the spiritual become secondary as a pattern in our lives. Never!!"  So next week we teach Eternal Marriage.  Yikes!!  That's a hot topic with YSA. 

We've had some great experiences this week with our young Elders and Sisters too....especially with the Elders in Owego and an investigator they're teaching who we pick up and drive to Institute.  She's about our age and we've mentioned her before (the Christmas dinner in July) and she told us the other night how her husband died....suicide on the day they were foreclosed on their home they'd built with their hands.  She is so angry with God and the Elders are teaching her how to know that He does love her and will bless her now and for the rest of her life and into eternity. I love hearing her pray because she says it like it is.  We've watched the Spirit fill missionary mouths with what to say at the exact time it needs to be said....because they're surely not that smart....they're just kids.  Heavenly Father is definitely taking the "weak things of the world" to give His message to those who are prepared to hear it.  Our Cornell elders have two more baptism dates for their Chinese investigators!  Our South Elders are"finding" just about every day they go out and our Sisters hold the district together along with our two Elders from Trumansburg who are both converts themselves.  Our district leader was a member for only about a year and a half when he came on his mission.  His Gospel insights are so mature.  This mission has made us more aware of how important the members are in missionary work with both investigator and less active.  And finding and teaching less actives is such an important part of missionary work.  How important it is for them to be taught systematically as well.  We seem to want to throw them right into the "application" of Gospel Principles (come to Church, pay your tithing, etc. etc.) without re-teaching them the Doctrine and Principles first (that is one of Elder Bednar's well defined admonitions).  Seeing this work is changing completely how we feel about home teaching and visiting teaching too.  We could go on and on about this!!

And so we won't for this e-mail!  We know that the crazy busy time of year is coming up for all of you and we're so happy that you're still taking the time to do what's important....being with and loving your families and supporting other family members in what they do and just------EVERYTHING!  We still love you and miss you as much as ever but we don't worry about you as much.....we've finally realized that you can get along without us.  How about that!!  But still don't forget to drop in an e-mail or few and keep posting on Facebook because we do take a few minutes each day to see what's going on at home. 

WE LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Elder Grandpa and Sister Grandma Jolley

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