Monday, April 28, 2014

We've Finally Learned North, South, East, & West!- April 28, 2014

Hello Everybody,

We've finally figured out which direction we're going when we walk out the door!!  And just a few days ago I actually drove somewhere (but with Dad sitting on the passengers side).  Here's something funny about me driving:  We went to the grocery store and I just wanted to go in by myself and Dad just wanted to sit in the car so I drove and parked, jumped out and went in the store and shopped for about 45 minutes.  So Dad decides he's going to get out and come in too but unfortunately I had locked the doors (since I had the keys) and whenever someone IN the car tries to get out and the doors are locked the car alarm goes off!  So there he was.....totally and completely stuck.  I probably won't ever do that again!!  

Number two.....we need to be more selective on the pictures we send for the blog or I need to edit the ones Dad sends....there were a couple of really bad ones!  Jan, make an executive decision and leave off the ones that you know I'd die before posting.....like the one where we tried to do a "selfie."  I think I will forget my phone next time!!  But the place we were at was beautiful.....the tallest waterfall east of the Mississippi.  The nicest thing about having P-day on Monday is that there is nobody out and about in these beautiful places except for old people like us....and a few dogs with their physically fit owner/runners who fly by.  One of these days the sun will come out long enough so that the leaves can break out on the trees.  One of the places we "fitness" walk is just a couple of minutes from our house if we drive or 10 minutes if we walk.  It's called Sapsucker Woods and it has wonderful trails and ponds and pussy willows and little critters and birds.  It's a wetlands preserve right next to an orthinology lab and visitors center which we have yet to go in.  

Lest you think all we do is explore and play, we really are finding ourselves inundated with things to do and people to see.....if we could just find them.  The official membership rolls for young single adults is huge but nobody seems to know where they're at or if they're even here.  Can we tell you though that this core group of YSA's here at Cornell is amazing!  They're not only looking for the lost but they're trying to figure out how to find them and love them back into the Church.  The two stake YSA reps, Sara and Joseph, came to our house the other night after Institute to bring us up to speed on what they know and they left at 1:00 A.M.  That's like 3 hours past our bedtime!  But the time just flew by and it's a good thing that senior missionaries don't have the 10:30 going to bed rule.  We were certainly dragging the next day though.  We tripled our numbers at Owego Institute....not because of us by any stretch of the imagination but because they're finding creative ways to get others to join them.   We get great support from the adults that participate there.  And we're working on that with the group here at Cornell.  We had a great Zone meeting last week and it was fun to be with the Elders and Sisters in the zone who all gathered.  The missionary numbers are down and will hopefully go up when the summer comes.  We have an area here in Ithaca that had to be closed because not enough missionaries.  President and Sister Wirthlin are so great with the missionaries as are the office couple who came with them.  And then we met the MLS senior couple who serve in our zone (membership leader support).  By the way, President Wirthin strongly encouraged us to come home for Jordon and Jen's wedding if it was possible budget wise so we'll see you in just a little over a month.  We'll fly home Wednesday June 4th and come back Monday June 9th because those are the best travel days.  It sounds like doing things like that is encouraged because the Church is trying to "attract" more senior couples to missionary service and not having to miss out on "critical family events (that's what the handbook called it) is part of that.  Ha Ha Cade and Carlee....don't you wish you were old?!!  We had a really good experience with the north Elders yesterday.  Their area is quite large and they usually don't have enough "miles" on their car to go to visit less actives who live far out in the little towns very often so we offered to take them.  They had a list of 6 names to visit.  The first 3 weren't home, the fourth was not a member but his ex-wife was and it was her name that was on the list.  He greeted us in the back yard....about 6'2"250 lbs., beard, long cigar, and working on his awesome 1954 muscle car.....but he very politely greeted us, we chatted for a few minutes and then he said we could go.  5th house didn't exist but the door of the 6th house was answered by a wonderful woman who is a retired college chemistry professor.  We had a great visit with her.  She's thinking that God doesn't care about her anymore and wondering what her purpose is in life.  The Elders were sooo good with her and talked to her about Heavenly Father's love and how to access that love through prayer.  The spirit was very strong.  I think we'll see her again as we seemed to hit it off really well with her and we could talk baseball.  We joked over her sign that said Red Sox fans could come in the front door but Yankees fans had to use the back.   Another fun thing happened this weekend. The ward sponsored an event to raise money for "Feed My Starving Children," a non-profit group supported by several Christian denominations to provide food packets for children all over the world.  It was a dinner theatre and the program was "The Taffetas."  We saw the show at Hale Center Theatre in Orem a couple of years ago and it's wonderful 50's music.  Friday night we worked in the kitchen all night helping prepare and serve a dinner and then washing a million dishes after.  Last night we attended the show and it was great.  We shared a table with a member of the former stake presidency and his wife and a couple from the Methodist Church.  The whole table next to us was also Methodists.  The lady at our table was formerly married to a Methodist minister and her twin boys were both born in 1979 at Mary Greely Hospital in Ames (Brian and Bryce "birthplace") while her ex-husband was pastoring a church there in Ames.  Small world!  Well, the last thing we'll tell you about before quitting was last Wednesday as we met with the chaplains at Cornell.  Our speaker was a man by the name of Phillip Jenkins, a world renowned religious historian. He actually spoke at a BYU forum in 2006 and Dad heard him  then.  Our group was small, maybe a dozen people, and so it was very informal and he singled us out as having a wonderful experience at BYU.  Then that afternoon we went to a campus wide lecture that he gave in this beautiful old place on campus called Sage Chapel.  We got there way early and Mr. Jenkins came in and just sat down by Dad and started talking as though he was an ordinary person.  He told us that periodically when missionaries come to his house at Baylor University where he holds some "chair" they always think he's a Mormon because he knows so much about the Church.  I visited with his wife in the masoleum (sorry can't spell) attached to the chapel.  She's an English professor at Penn State and she loves her Mormon graduate students.  And there are really dead people buried in the Sage Chapel!!

Well.....Dad's doing all the CES work this afternoon and I'm writing this letter!  He has better ideas than I do and he does a better job on the computer with what needs to be done.  Good thing we brought 2 laptops!  So I'm thinking that you're all gathering for family dinner this afternoon.  Boo hoo that we're not there!  We miss you all but we knew that would happen and we anxiously wait for e-mails from anybody.  Hey a thing just popped up on our phones that said there is a hard freeze warning for Utah County tonight.  Does that mean you're having New York weather?!!  Our sun is shining today but the high temp is probably only 45 degrees.  We'll be happy for summer if this is spring!  Amazing that we've been gone for a month.  Time flies when you're having fun!!!

Love you

Dad and Mom/Grandpa and Grandma/ aka Elder and Sister Jolley

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